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Wednesday, February 5, 2014

Mum Green's Gift

In December 2012 my husband lost his Mum to cancer. She was a wonderful lady with a funny sense of humor and a love of knitting--mostly Aran jumpers. Lots and lots of jumpers for my girls when they were little, which I've saved safely away for when they have little ones of their own. She knit me at least 4 sweaters, my Grandma got a couple, my aunt at least three, even my Dad received an Aran jumper. We miss her every day, and I think of her often when I knit. She was the only one (aside from you blogland friends) that ever cared about what I was knitting, and why.

When Mum got sick for the last time, she was working on a cardigan for my Grandma. They met at our wedding and hit it off immediately. Here is an excerpt from an email of Mum's, 9 May, 2012:

How is the knitting going? I am not sure how you find the time. I have at long last finished that cardigan I was doing. Four times I had to pick up 340 stitches - three times it was all wrong. Talk about patience. So I have been sitting here wondering what on earth I can knit next. As you know I hate knitting for myself anyway, no incentive. I was wondering if your Gran would like another jacket/cardigan. Remember i did one for her a year or two ago. You will definitely remember because I nearly drove you mad when I was convinced it was not going to get there! Thing is, I have found a pattern which will not be too detailed (like your Dad’s was) in one of my Aran books. What do you think? I don’t want to do the Aran colour AGAIN but perhaps if you ever get a minute to spare, you could look online at the Knitwell Catalogue where they sell this Bonus Aran (400g. balls) and see if there is any colour she might like. Most of them are very bright, but one or two paler shades One I thought of was called “something storm” I cannot remember now but then I thought it looked a bit gray and she maybe would not like that. Difficult really. On the other hand you might think she maybe does not want one at all!!!! Anyway, when you have time – I can always knit squares!




In November, when Mum knew she really was ill for the last time, Dave was down for a visit. When he left she gave him the bag with her knitting, the wool, and the pattern book. He was crushed when he brought it home to me. I was so sad, it went straight into the cupboard, and there is sat, for months and months, across the ocean to Australia, and back into the cupboard. I couldn't decide if I wanted to finish the cardigan, or just leave it there in the closet, forever. One day I was discussing it with my Mom, and she said I really had to finish, because that is what Mum wanted when she gave it to Dave to brig home to me. I knew she was right, but oh what a road I had ahead of me. Mum had finished 3/4 of the back, and that left a whole lot of cardigan for me to complete.



And that is how Mum's last Aran jumper became my first. I picked it up around June, and I knit it in fits and spurts until my Mom arrived for holiday in December. She said if I could finish it before she left at the end of January, she'd deliver it to my Grandma in Michigan in February. THAT is what I needed, a deadline and a freezing cold winter in the USA. I finished it with a week to spare, and my Grandma loves it.




For several years now I've been focused on knitting in the round, with no seaming if I can at all avoid it. This jumper is seamed, and I loved making it. I loved that I could do it a piece at a time, and make other things without losing my place in the pattern. I really enjoyed making it, and I love how it turned out. I love that my Grandma, who I love dearly and was a good friend to my Mother-in-law can wear a hug that comes from both of us.

10 comments:

  1. what a beautiful story to a lovely knit, I'm glad you finished it and it seems you were destined to finish it :)

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  2. I am her husband Dave. I don't cry. Tears are rolling down. I am very lucky with who brought me up an who I share my life with. I wish I had more words as they are both worth it but this is all I can do right now.

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  3. What a sweet story. It is beautiful. I love the photos on the wall behind her head in the first picture. A true sign of a loving grandma!!

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  4. ooooh, what a wonderful story. That sweater is an extra special gift because of this story.

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  5. You have done such a lovely job, and I think she is probably looking down and happy that you finished her work off.

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  6. What a beautiful story and such a special cardigan

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  7. That's such a beautiful and sad story. I'm so happy you finished the cardigan and your granny likes it so much. Your mother in law must be so proud of you and smiling, wherever she is.And you have done a fabulous knitting job. Well done on tackling the seaming monster. I always think cardis look beat seamed.

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  8. What a perfect story for a 'love' holiday! Well done, you!!

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  9. Thank you for sharing your story of family, friendship and knitting. Your mother in law would be so proud of you for finishing her WIP and doing an amazing job besides. The sweater looks lovely on your grandma.

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  10. What a beautiful sweater and what a wonderful story! I love how it traveled from one side of the family to another, across continents. It's a great treasure indeed.

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